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Guys. You can only really see the little yellow flowers in the shadow. The shadow can sometimes be the place where the sweetest things bloom. You hear people talk about shadow work. And it can seem wonky. But this picture says it all. Don’t try to fix the shadow. Don’t try to eliminate the shadow. Look into the shadow and find the sweetness. What does that really mean though? Sometimes it means don’t be anxious about being anxious. Or unhappy about being unhappy. It can mean knowing that uncomfortable times maybe are perfect. It means not judging myself when I’m depressed. It means being ok if I’m feeling a lot and I have to accept I don’t even know what I’m feeling. It means talking through uncertainty with people I trust. It means laughing anyway. It means letting jealousy direct me to where I’d like to improve. It means knowing the grass is green right here. Not on the other side. But right next to the shadow. But that the shadow gives things a shape. That’s some of what shadow work has been for me. Xx . . . #comedian #mentalhealthawareness #shadow #shadowhunters #shadowwork #mentalhealth #nationalautismawarenessday #tuesdaymotivation #tuesdaythoughts #socksfetish #lawn #creativity #creative #creativityfound #creativity_love #selfie #writersofinstagram #writers #writersofinsta #writing #influencer #therapy #healthylifestyle #producersbelike #streetstorytelling #yogisofinstagram #yogagirl #deep #bethechange

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Guys. You can only really see the little yellow flowers in the shadow. The shadow can sometimes be the place where the sweetest things bloom. You hear people talk about shadow work. And it can seem wonky. But this picture says it all. Don’t try to fix the shadow. Don’t try to eliminate the shadow. Look into the shadow and find the sweetness. What does that really mean though? Sometimes it means don’t be anxious about being anxious. Or unhappy about being unhappy. It can mean knowing that uncomfortable times maybe are perfect. It means not judging myself when I’m depressed. It means being ok if I’m feeling a lot and I have to accept I don’t even know what I’m feeling. It means talking through uncertainty with people I trust. It means laughing anyway. It means letting jealousy direct me to where I’d like to improve. It means knowing the grass is green right here. Not on the other side. But right next to the shadow. But that the shadow gives things a shape. That’s some of what shadow work has been for me. Xx . . . #comedian #mentalhealthawareness #shadow #shadowhunters #shadowwork #mentalhealth #nationalautismawarenessday #tuesdaymotivation #tuesdaythoughts #socksfetish #lawn #creativity #creative #creativityfound #creativity_love #selfie #writersofinstagram #writers #writersofinsta #writing #influencer #therapy #healthylifestyle #producersbelike #streetstorytelling #yogisofinstagram #yogagirl #deep #bethechange

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Post @uncabaret nuzzle with Michael Patrick King. 💝 #writerslife #dtla

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Me on SATC #Repost @everyoutfitonsatc ・・・ 🔪MARINA ABRAMOVIC IS A SAMANTHA🔪 No one can pull off an austere all-white outfit quite like a performance artist in the midst of a 16 day durational piece. Only minimalism is appropriate under such circumstances, and girlfriend really knocked it out of the park with her crisp white separates and Siouxsie Sioux-inspired hairstyle. But fashion aside, we want to note that this scene was based on real performance piece by the legendary Marina Abramovic titled “The House With the Ocean View”. In 2002, Abramovic performed the piece for 12 consecutive days without eating or speaking. She bathed, slept, and used the toilet in full view of the audience. The piece was later replicated on SATC with her permission, although she declined to personally appear in the episode. She also just happens to be close friends with our homegirl @kimcattrall. The two interviewed each other for a 2013 V Magazine feature where Abramovic stated that Samantha was her favorite character because, “You don’t give a shit about anything.” Cattrall also participated in her 2010 MoMa performance piece “The Artist is Present”, where audience members took turns sitting at a table across from Abramovic, who sat in silence. Many attendees were moved to tears by the experience. Their portraits were taken, including Cattrall’s, which we have included here. Needless to say, we fucking LIVE for the art references on Sex and the City and we are devoting several posts to the topic in the coming days. Stay tuned... 🎨 (S6/EP12) #TheArtofSATC #MarinaAbramovic #KimCattrall #Minimalism #PerformanceArt . . #actor #actorslife #actress #sexandthecity #fashion #tv

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